People with IDD | Source | Board Members & Self Advocates at The Arc of the United States

“People have thought that I would never be anything or do anything, that I don’t know what’s going on in the world. Having an intellectual disability does not mean you’re dumb. They work harder than most just to do things others take for granted. They may need help with certain things, but don’t we all?” —Melody Cooper, 54, has cerebral palsy and intellectual disability. She is self-advocate specialist at The Arc of Indiana.

“People with disabilities are just as worthy as those without disabilities to live happy, productive lives.” —Sydney Badeau, 30, has dyspraxia, a nonverbal learning disorder and a sensory processing disorder. She is an advocacy and outreach specialist at The Arc Wisconsin.

If your child is staring at someone with a disability and you’d like to find out more, Dr. Pegues suggests first asking, “I see my child is staring. I think she’s curious about you. Do you mind if we ask you a few questions?” Most people with disabilities are used to unwanted attention and will honestly answer if they can or want to share details about their disability or not. “If you get a ‘no’ from the individual, then have a personal conversation with that child in the privacy of your car or home,” says Dr. Pegues.