On the record
Share profile 
Link:
Bio
Edit

I am a former Matchmaker, and Certified NLP and Life Coach- shorthand, I'm a Dating Burnout Coach. My coaching focus is Asian-American daters and divorced or single parent daters, though I can work with people in all stages of singlehood and dating.

In the past 30 years I have dated, been in serious relationships, cohabitated, relocated across country for a partner (and back again), been married, become a parent, been divorced without any resources available to me except my own force of will, been dating as a single parent while going back to college and restarting my career, before finding my ideal partner, who is nothing like I would have imagined 10 years ago, and yet, magically, exactly as I would have imagined 30 years ago. I've made a lot of mistakes and learned even more, and coached clients through similar transitions to minimize their mistakes and maximize their learnings.

  • Dating Coach Reveals What Women Notice on First Dates
    Caroline notes women notice if men ask questions, respect boundaries, and show genuine interest. She says, "Be curious. Listen as much as you speak." Men should show consideration for their date's time and be secure in their own lives to make a positive impression.
  • Rising Trend: Singles Seek Dating Coaches for Guidance
    Caroline shares that many clients hire dating coaches due to modern dating challenges. She notes, "Clients have told me over the years why they hired me," highlighting the growing demand for professional guidance in finding meaningful connections.
  • Dating Coach Reveals Worst Breakup Methods and Their Emotional Impact
    Caroline highlights the worst breakup methods: abrupt endings, listing grievances, slow affection withdrawal, post-romantic highs, and consulting friends first. She warns, "These approaches can cause trauma, defensiveness, anxiety, and shame," compounding the pain of separation.
Headshots