Relationship & Intimacy Coach at Practical Intimacy
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In her new docuseries, Coleen Rooney discusses why she’s chosen to stay with her husband Wayne despite his history of infidelity, as well as the shaming she’s received for not ending her marriage. Ellie Muir speaks to experts about one of the hardest decisions a cheated-on person can make
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I’ve had couples say that [they’re] not grateful for the infidelity, but [grateful] for what their marriage then became. They wouldn’t wish infidelity on anyone, but what came after, in many ways, saved their relationship.
It’s so important to address the stigma of staying with a partner. If you do decide to stay, I think it says that you’re courageous. It shows you recognise the value of your relationship, and you have hope that your relationship can be better. [It’s OK to say]: ‘I’m choosing to stay because I believe in this and I want to make it work even though it’s difficult, even though it hurts, even though your people may not understand’.