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Kristi Spencer

Etiquette Coach and Founder of The Polite Company at The Polite Company and 1 other company
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Kristi Spencer is an accomplished etiquette instructor and journalist who has dedicated her career to helping people present their best selves to the world. With over two decades of experience in TV newsrooms, Kristi has leveraged her expertise to build The Polite Company, a business that provides personalized, in-person, and online etiquette training to individuals and businesses.

Kristi is a certified etiquette trainer and a graduate of the Emily Post Institute. Her philosophy is that etiquette is not just about memorizing a set of rules, but about building strong relationships based on consideration, respect, and honesty. Kristi is a passionate advocate for workplace civility and professionalism and is regularly called on to provide etiquette expertise for media outlets.

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  • Mastering Engagement Card Etiquette
    Etiquette Coach Kristi Spencer recommends bringing a congratulatory card to engagement parties. A simple "Congratulations!" suffices, or add a personal touch. Thoughtful gifts like wine are optional. Keep messages light, positive, and humor cautious.
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  • Etiquette isn't about memorizing a set of rules, it's about building relationships.

    While tipping has become a standard practice in many industries, it's important to remember that it is not always necessary or expected. Being pressured or guilted into tipping can actually detract from the experience and leave us feeling confused instead of appreciative.

    Technology touches every part of our everyday lives, enabling us to stay connected with the world around us. However, it’s important to remember that just because technology is everywhere doesn't mean it should be used everywhere.

    Politeness is not about being a pushover. It’s about being respectful of yourself and others, even when you disagree. By learning how to politely dodge nosy questions, say no, and disagree, you can build stronger relationships and set healthy boundaries.

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