Suzanne Vickberg, PhD, is a social-personality psychologist, author, coach, and divorce revolutionary. She is passionate about applying her expertise in creative problem-solving to tackling life’s thorniest challenges. She is the author of Divorce by Design: What If Staying or Leaving Aren't Your Only Options and the co-author of Business Chemistry: Practical Magic for Crafting Powerful Work Relationships. Suzanne has earned a PhD from the CUNY Graduate Center and an MBA from NYU. She lives in Maplewood, NJ with her family, including her two teenagers, her ex-husband, & his wife.
Show Chatter that Matters, Ep Dr. Suzanne Vickberg - Moving on but not Moving Out - May 12, 2023. In honour of Mother's Day, I'd like to share the inspiring story of Dr. Suzanne Vickberg. Despite divorcing her husband twelve years ago, she still lives with him, their children, and his new wife - not as a 'Jerry Springer' spectacle, but as a testament to the idea that divorce doesn't have to be devastating and that family comes first. For Dr. Vickberg, her divorce wasn't a failure but an opportunity to find a new way forward. She refused to limit herself to the binary choice of staying or leaving and instead moved into the guest room, which ultimately allowed her family to remain intact. This is a story of a mother's love and sacrifice for her family and how it can lead to unexpected and beautiful outcomes.
How traveling alone after a divorce or breakup can be an adventurous start to your new life as a single person. Feeling like you have no one to get away with is all too common after a divorce or breakup. But the truth is, you always have a worthwhile travel companion – yourself – and hitting the road on your own can be a deeply transformative experience. “As a way to heal after a breakup, solo travel is a great opportunity to see the gifts of not being in a partnership,” Suzanne Vickberg, PhD, a social-personality psychologist and author of “Divorce by Design: What If Staying or Leaving Aren’t Your Only Options?, said.” “It gives you focused time to not worry about anyone but yourself.” Here’s a closer look at how traveling on your own can boost your well-being after a divorce or breakup...
Show Divorcing Well, Ep Divorce By Design With Suzanne Vickberg - 1 May 2023. In this week’s episode of Divorcing Well, I chat with author and coach, Suzanne Vickberg, about how to design your divorce. Suzanne discusses her book, Divorce By Design, and how her and her partner were able to be creative in designing the divorce that worked best for their family. Suzanne discusses how her and her partner, along with her partner’s new spouse, have lived together for over thirteen years, raising their family together in a respectful, positive approach. While Suzanne agrees that this living arrangement may not work for many people, she focuses on advising others how they can think outside the box with their divorce, have their own “divorce vision”, and they don’t have to just blindly follow the negative, adversarial approach used by so many people. This podcast is a must listen for anyone going through divorce who wants to use a positive, creative approach.
“Taking a trip alone after a breakup is a good way to get out of whatever feelings and familiarities you have when you’re in your normal space and normal life,” said Vickberg. “Getting on an airplane is a signal to yourself and that world that you’re not going to sit and wait to see what happens next. You’re going to actively live your life.”
“Having to navigate around a place you’ve never been without anyone to fall back on can be scary for people,” Vickberg said. “But when you’ve just broken up with someone, it’s such a great time to revel in the benefits of being independent and take on something that feels challenging to show yourself just how strong you are.”